Turn me around and make everything right
Feb. 13th, 2004 12:52 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
twicketfaceI spent a chunk of Wednesday night on the phone with Jeremy. He and Kristie are hosting a sledding party that sounds too good to be true. At the bottom of the sledding hill, there is an apparatus that you attach your tube to that pulls you back up to the top. Taking the worst part out of sledding (the work) is the greatest idea ever. Only in America. Anyway, we talked for over an hour and it was quite nice. I need to remember that he's usually home on Wednesday nights.
I spent most of last night running errands and cooking. Eric and Lori are coming over tonight for dinner and to watch Lost in Translation. I made stuffed manicotti and an apple pumpkin dessert (crockpots rule). Stuffing manicotti is harder than I thought it would be. I need a pastry bag or something if I'm going to attempt that again.
I also ran some super secret errands for Valentine's Day. Marie is difficult to surprise and holidays/celebrations would be a lot more enjoyable if she was just a bit more gullible. Anyway, I think I'm going to be able to pull it off and it should be great.
Warning - potential million dollar idea ahead. Proceed with caution. Slippery when wet:
With all the secrecy that comes with being a politician and the hiding of important documentation, would it not be a good idea to form a group that would obtain copies of politicians background (military service, voting records, donations received and so forth) while it's still public record before they run for a higher level of office (like President)? Also, is that last sentence not the longest one you've read in a long time? My thought is that if you are denying access to records, you've got something to hide. I need to learn more about the Freedom of Information Act.
Six months after moving into my new office, I finally got around to putting up some pictures. Five Ansel Adams prints and the calendar that Marie made and gave to me for Christmas. I've received two compliments already.
In lieu of Valentine's Day, I'm curious about people who have cheated on someone or been cheated on. If you don't mind sharing, I'd like to hear your story. When did it happen? What were your (or their) motives? Did it lead to you breaking up? Did they find out? Post anonymously if you want to - I'm just curious.
# Wallet – Large bi-fold (tri-fold wallets should be illegal) that I got from Target. My previous wallet had more secret compartments, but this will do.
# Jewelry worn daily – Just my wedding ring. Sometimes a necklace I got on our honeymoon.
# Pillow cover – Currently, a beige flannel cover. Crusted with drool, for sure.
# Blanket – A black and beige quilt. Likely some drool on here as well.
# Coffee cup/mug – My friend Julie gave us a beer glass from a bar in Oshkosh with some flowers in it. I now use it as a drinking glass for water. It's heavy and I like it.
# Sunglasses – I think this year I'm getting prescription sunglasses. I have a few regular pairs, but don't ever remember to wear them.
# Shoes – Winter - Black Vans or boots. For work, it's either brown or black dress shoes
# Favorite shirt – Short-sleeve is the Dismemberment Plan shirt that I bought from![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
mollymolly. Long sleeve is a tan shirt that is very comfortable but is always rife with wrinkles.
# Cologne/Perfume – Marie got me some body spray that I like. Terry told me that he uses the same kind.
# What are you listening to – Matt Skiba - Next to You
# Tattoos – None and probably never.
# Piercings – None and never.
# What you are wearing now – Khaki pants and a blue checkered (houndstooth?) shirt that Marie bought for me.
# Hair – Freshly cut and crusted with gel. I'm wearing it 'down' today.
# WHO or WHAT (was/is/are)in my head – I have to pee and it's almost time for lunch. I got paid today too, so that's good.
# Wishing – That this afternoon goes by quickly.
# After this – Peeing and lunch. Working on this large and complex spreadsheet involving things I partially understand.
# Eating – I had an 'everything' bagel and chai tea for breakfast this morning. Money well spent.
# If you could get away with it and murder anyone, who and for what reason – No one. Any 'bad' person I would choose would be replaced by another 'bad' person. Hate the game, not the player.
# Person you wish you could see right now – Marie
# Is next to you – Water bottle, stack of CDs, resume, phone cord, keycard to access parking ramp.
# Some of your favorite movies – Wet Hot American Summer, Memento, The Game, The Usual Suspects, Sneakers
# Something you're looking forward to in the upcoming month – I guess that would be March, right? Warmer weather would be good.
# The last thing you ate – I think I covered this already.
# Something that you are deathly afraid of – As irrational as it sounds, losing my friends or Marie.
# Do you like candles – I do, but need to switch to beeswax.
# Do you like hot wax – As long as it's not on my person, I'm indifferent.
# Do you like incense – I haven't smelled enough to tell.
# Do you believe in love – Of course not.
# Do you believe in love at first sight – No.
# What do you want done with your body when you die – Cremation
# What is the latest you've ever stayed up – At Jeremy's bachelor party I didn't fall asleep until around 5am, despite going to bed around 1am.
# Can you eat with chopsticks – Probably not very well.
I spent most of last night running errands and cooking. Eric and Lori are coming over tonight for dinner and to watch Lost in Translation. I made stuffed manicotti and an apple pumpkin dessert (crockpots rule). Stuffing manicotti is harder than I thought it would be. I need a pastry bag or something if I'm going to attempt that again.
I also ran some super secret errands for Valentine's Day. Marie is difficult to surprise and holidays/celebrations would be a lot more enjoyable if she was just a bit more gullible. Anyway, I think I'm going to be able to pull it off and it should be great.
Warning - potential million dollar idea ahead. Proceed with caution. Slippery when wet:
With all the secrecy that comes with being a politician and the hiding of important documentation, would it not be a good idea to form a group that would obtain copies of politicians background (military service, voting records, donations received and so forth) while it's still public record before they run for a higher level of office (like President)? Also, is that last sentence not the longest one you've read in a long time? My thought is that if you are denying access to records, you've got something to hide. I need to learn more about the Freedom of Information Act.
Six months after moving into my new office, I finally got around to putting up some pictures. Five Ansel Adams prints and the calendar that Marie made and gave to me for Christmas. I've received two compliments already.
In lieu of Valentine's Day, I'm curious about people who have cheated on someone or been cheated on. If you don't mind sharing, I'd like to hear your story. When did it happen? What were your (or their) motives? Did it lead to you breaking up? Did they find out? Post anonymously if you want to - I'm just curious.
# Wallet – Large bi-fold (tri-fold wallets should be illegal) that I got from Target. My previous wallet had more secret compartments, but this will do.
# Jewelry worn daily – Just my wedding ring. Sometimes a necklace I got on our honeymoon.
# Pillow cover – Currently, a beige flannel cover. Crusted with drool, for sure.
# Blanket – A black and beige quilt. Likely some drool on here as well.
# Coffee cup/mug – My friend Julie gave us a beer glass from a bar in Oshkosh with some flowers in it. I now use it as a drinking glass for water. It's heavy and I like it.
# Sunglasses – I think this year I'm getting prescription sunglasses. I have a few regular pairs, but don't ever remember to wear them.
# Shoes – Winter - Black Vans or boots. For work, it's either brown or black dress shoes
# Favorite shirt – Short-sleeve is the Dismemberment Plan shirt that I bought from
mollymolly. Long sleeve is a tan shirt that is very comfortable but is always rife with wrinkles.# Cologne/Perfume – Marie got me some body spray that I like. Terry told me that he uses the same kind.
# What are you listening to – Matt Skiba - Next to You
# Tattoos – None and probably never.
# Piercings – None and never.
# What you are wearing now – Khaki pants and a blue checkered (houndstooth?) shirt that Marie bought for me.
# Hair – Freshly cut and crusted with gel. I'm wearing it 'down' today.
# WHO or WHAT (was/is/are)in my head – I have to pee and it's almost time for lunch. I got paid today too, so that's good.
# Wishing – That this afternoon goes by quickly.
# After this – Peeing and lunch. Working on this large and complex spreadsheet involving things I partially understand.
# Eating – I had an 'everything' bagel and chai tea for breakfast this morning. Money well spent.
# If you could get away with it and murder anyone, who and for what reason – No one. Any 'bad' person I would choose would be replaced by another 'bad' person. Hate the game, not the player.
# Person you wish you could see right now – Marie
# Is next to you – Water bottle, stack of CDs, resume, phone cord, keycard to access parking ramp.
# Some of your favorite movies – Wet Hot American Summer, Memento, The Game, The Usual Suspects, Sneakers
# Something you're looking forward to in the upcoming month – I guess that would be March, right? Warmer weather would be good.
# The last thing you ate – I think I covered this already.
# Something that you are deathly afraid of – As irrational as it sounds, losing my friends or Marie.
# Do you like candles – I do, but need to switch to beeswax.
# Do you like hot wax – As long as it's not on my person, I'm indifferent.
# Do you like incense – I haven't smelled enough to tell.
# Do you believe in love – Of course not.
# Do you believe in love at first sight – No.
# What do you want done with your body when you die – Cremation
# What is the latest you've ever stayed up – At Jeremy's bachelor party I didn't fall asleep until around 5am, despite going to bed around 1am.
# Can you eat with chopsticks – Probably not very well.
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Date: 2004-02-13 11:29 am (UTC)I hate it when people say first then don't have a second. But I don't have a second I am going to answer about the cheating.My first real boyfriend ever in college cheated on me after 3 years. I have no idea why he did it. And we are great friends now, and he still doesn't know. It ended in me taking him back twice him doing it again and finally us breaking up. It has taken alot to get me to trust any one again. And I still have thoughts of is this person going to run off and do what he did. And actually I brought it up the other day that he sitll hasn't apologized, it's been 3 years. Have I ever cheated? I was kissed by someone while in a relationship. Supposedly I was cheating but I was kissed and didn't kiss back. But I was mental cheating. I was spending more time talking to a random guy than my then boyfriend. So I guess the kissing shouldn't have come as such a surpise.
I am worried about why you want to know this.
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Date: 2004-02-13 11:40 am (UTC)Was it difficult to take him back? Did you stop seeing each other for a while or did you forgive him right away?
No worries - I could never, ever cheat on Marie and she'd never cheat on me. I'm just curious about others' experiences since I rarely dated.
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Date: 2004-02-13 11:54 am (UTC)It wasn't hard the first time. It was much harder the second time. Now that we are friends and he has grown up, I would try again. But we both know I would never trust him, it just wouldn't work.
We stopped seeing each other after the first time for about a month. We wound up getting back together because I got really sick and he was there to take care of me. I forgave him. The second time, It was about 3 months, I figured, what the hell. We can try, 2 months later I found out it was still going on.
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Date: 2004-02-13 12:01 pm (UTC)I'm sorry for what you had to go through.
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Date: 2004-02-13 12:03 pm (UTC)And it's not your fault don't be sorry. I lived thru it. I'll be fine